who's fault...grrr

So my parents will defend my husband and his actions (well the actions that they know of - which isn't much)

My husbands mother tell him I'm a nag and that I have a habit of putting people down.

I'm so tired of everyone butting in when they know nothing about us. Both sets of parents don;t know a damn thing really. My parents would want me to leave. His mother has wanted to leave FIL for years and years and years and stays. But yet blames me when her son acts the same way her own husband acts... Then again, as a mother, I guess I can't really be surprised for not blaming her own son (her only son).

I am a nag, as is Josie, because we have to repeat ourselves literally 5 times to get him to hear, then process, then actually do something, if he actually does it. I'm not saying that to be mean. It's true. One is probably the severe ADD he has, and the rest...who knows. I'm sure it does sound like nagging. But damnit, why should I do everything? Seriously, why when we are at his parents place am I supposed to take care of both kids while he sit there and watches tv and has his mother wait on him? Seriously, that fucked up.

And habit of putting people down...maybe she should hear her own son sometimes.

I'm so fucking tired of everything being my fault! Everyone just blames me. Everything with me and dh, my fault. He says so, my parents and his say so.

At work the other assistant manager HATES me. I felt like I was in high school today with her whispering about me (they weren't too quiet) to the other worker on the shift. Seriously?! She's like 50 years old and she's got nothing better to do that that? OMG! Grow up. I work constantly from the start until the end of my shift. I work 6 days a week 8-9 (or more) hours per day. I put in more work weekly than any other person there (including the owners!). I'm so tired of this petty shit. All because one day (before she was ass manager and I was), I asked if she could sweep an area. I was doing something else, she was talking. She looked me up and down and said, with major attitude, that she does not need direction and she stays busy and walked away. And she's buddy buddy with all the workers so if I were to retaliate or being it to the owners awareness (if they believed me) then I'd have to deal with workers not listening and all kinds of shit.